ive lived with a certain degree of insomnia all my life, taking a long time to fall asleep, i used to deal with this problem as best i could but and as ive gotten older (31) and certain pressures have mounted in life, I gradually developed semi serious depression in the last two years. I yearn to better myself to bring me out of depression, but I cannot fall asleep now without Xanax and Alchohol, and this preventing me from reaching my full potential, physically and mentally.
I go to the gym work my butt off thinking it will help me fall asleep naturally, but I end up laying in bed for hours, the only way is to increase my xanax dosage now to nearly 2mg's which I really dont want to do. I can mix alchohol and take 1mg and I know I can fall asleep, but damn, I dont wanna drink everynite either. If I do not take the xanax and just drink to pass out, then I will feel hungover the next day and cant focus on work or excercise. I am at wits end, dont know what to do. Any advice out there?
You shouldn't be drinking–besides all the usual reasons, when you take meds, it's a bad idea and it can interfere with sleep. Don't increase a med dosage without consulting your doctor.
For non-prescription things which help (based on personal experience):
make the room as dark as possible–light interferes with melatonin production, causing sleep problems. Keep a flashlight in your nightstand in case you need to get up in the dark.
don't exercise for 3-6 hours before going to bed.
don't eat before going to bed–at least 4 hours before going to bed
make sure it's quiet
make sure your bed is comfortable–can get a memory foam mattress topper if your bed is not so great and you're short of money
memory foam pillows are also worth getting
lavendar oil sprinkled in the bed can help you relax and sleep. You can get that essential oil at any health food store I've ever seen. That bottle can last the better part of a year, so the $10 or so is worth it.
watch caffeine intake (remember chocolate and tea have caffeine as well as coffee)
you can try VALERIAN ROOT capsules–if you burp them up it's kind of gross, but otherwise, never had a problem with them
get a massager–can be whole body–use on the floor or bed for 15 minutes–or a foot one or such–massage helps you relax
try any of Dr. Weil's relaxation tips:
http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/id/ART00536
go to bed at the same time–and get up at the same time even on weekends–and allot 7-9 hours for sleep–phone off, etc.
When you eat dinner you can try some turkey–the tryptophan tends to make folks sleepy
allot some time during the day, perhaps even twice, to "worry" and make your "to do" lists so that you can short circuit some of that PROBLEMS list that gets to running in your mind when you try to sleep
Those should help. When you stop drinking, you probably will have more sleep issues for a couple of weeks or so as your body is detoxing. Just no way around it even when you were not drinking excessively.
warm shower or bath before bed can also help to relax you.
Good luck. Can start any/all suggestions and after a solid 30 days after no more drinking if you're not better off, then you should talk to a doctor about why you're having sleep problems.
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